The Slow Living Movement Could Be Just What You Need Right Now

The Slow Living Movement Could Be Just What You Need Right Now

We are overwhelmed by a relentless amount of information every day. We have blooming consumer debt. We have homes so large we can’t keep them maintained. We have breakfast  and dinner in the car. We have weekends booked out for months in advance.

We have forgotten what it is to have less. Less stuff. Less stress. Less expectation. Less to do. Less to be. Less to prove. We are hyper-connected and utterly disconnected at the same time. We engage with strangers on social media, but we don’t say hello to our neighbours.

Whenever I have the opportunity to talk face-to-face with people about creating a slower life of less, the response is almost always the same: Their shoulders slump as they sigh, “Oh, that’s what I need.”

Usually that’s followed up with the question: “But how?”

What is slow living?

Over the past two years on The Slow Home Podcast, I’ve interviewed more than 100 people who all have different views on what it means to live a slower life. From tree changes to urban living, tiny homes to ethical consumption, self-sustainability to slow food—there is no one way of describing the external indicators of slow living because there is no one way to live a slower, simpler life.

Author and slow living advocate Erin Loechner told me that to her, slow living is a duality of caring more and caring less—that is, working out what’s worth caring more about, and letting go of the things that aren’t. Since embracing a slower, more mindful life, she cares more about being available for her friends and far less about dust bunnies.

In other words, slow living doesn’t necessarily look like a certain type of house or a particular combination of color-coordinated outfits, and it doesn’t need to involve baking bread or growing vegetables either. If you spend any time perusing the hashtag #slowliving, however, you’d be forgiven for believing this is a lifestyle based almost solely on wearing washed-out neutral tones while walking through the woods—of timber floors and white walls and fashionably worn stovetops surrounded by beautifully aged chopping boards, artful lattes and crumpled bed sheets on rainy days.

But, really, I think Erin gets to the heart of it. Slow living is a curious mix of being prepared and being prepared to let go. Caring more and caring less. Saying yes and saying no. Being present and walking away. Doing the important things and forgetting those that aren’t. Grounded and free. Heavy and light. Organized and flexible. Complex and simple.

It’s about living in accordance with the important things in life. But more specifically, living in accordance with the important things in yourlife.

It’s about cultivating self-awareness, letting go of the excess stuff in our homes, learning how to live mindfully, getting in touch with our personal values, and choosing which advice applies to our circumstances, happily releasing the ideas that don’t fit our homes, families, jobs or values.

It’s about life. The living part, specifically. It’s about paying attention to it and spending time in the noticing. The hand-holding and the tear stains and the sunrises and the uncertainties. The love and the anger and the joy and the envy.

So while my book, Slow, opens by telling the Joneses where they can stick their version of a perfect life, it actually has very little to do with them and everything to do with you. Because your important stuff is almost certainly not the same as mine, or theirs.

This is not a quick fix. I’ve been making changes to my family’s life for over six years and we’re not there yet. Because there is no “there.” This isn’t a race with a start and a finish line. This is slow, imperfect, intentional and evolving.

So that’s why you’re here. That’s why I’m here. And I’m glad of it.

Excerpted fromSlowby Brooke McAlary by Allen and Unwin.